We all have things that happen in our lives. But it is how you accept yourself and the situation that will decide your mental well being. You really don’t have to pray to be like everyone else. Instead, try to develop and strengthen your mental core. Feel worthy of your uniqueness. Boost your processor and upgrade your batteries!
Your ability to control emotions and how you move forward when life hits hard will determines your mental toughness. Strong mental health is what you should develop if you want to live a life you love.
Here are 3 ways to which I think might help you to be the winner in you!
1: Be self-confident
Self-confidence is a tool that is developed when you have patience, commitment, and a positive mental attitude. It is also so easily exhaustible if fear is your driver or you don’t have faith in yourself. So how can you be more confident about yourself and achieve the unachievable? HOPE!
Even if the world or your inner critic makes a lot of negative noises like ‘it isn’t possible’ or ‘you aren’t worthy of achieving it’ or if things aren’t going your way you must have Hope!
Instead, replace them with ‘how can I do it?’ or ‘Why won’t I change?’ or ‘Why should I do it now?’. At least this way somewhere in your mind the solutions are being cooked up. Check out these ways with which you can be self-confident.
2: Stop Overthinking and Start Doing
Overthinking is dreadful!
We are simply killing ourselves with thoughts that make no progress. Look, we all have 24 hours each day. And our mind produces 70,000 thoughts of which 50,000 of them are crap! Either they are repetitive or negative.
Negative thoughts attract negative situations. The point is that we have a short life.
You don’t wanna spend most of your entire life thinking about the shit you don’t wanna think about.
Read that once more. Feed it into your subconscious!
So get up and things you always wanted to do. Instead of opening the gates for anxiety and depression to get into your life. Please do not lock yourself in the dreadful cage of overthinking.
3: Be self-disciplined
Self-discipline is your ability to do something regardless of how you feel. Some want to do the work but laziness keeps them back. If you have a goal in your mind, you must get used to being comfortable in your uncomfortable zone. Being consistent and regular in working towards your dream indicates that you have impressive self-discipline.
With self-discipline comes freedom.Aristotle
Those were the 3 simple techniques with which your mental health could boost up to a new level.